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Many of us grow up and follow what’s expected of us by our families – go to college, get a degree, get a job at some corporation and work a 9-5, have kids, then retire if we’re lucky.
While that approach to life often leads to a level of success and even happiness for some people, it’s not for everyone…(it certainly wasn’t for us!)
Choosing to become a wedding photographer takes a lot of guts because it’s a very unconventional career path.
But, as people who “made it” – we know that a wedding photography career can be incredibly rewarding and if done right, even more lucrative than you could imagine.
While we love being wedding photographers, and can definitely highlight some of the perks that comes with this job, any look at wedding photography as a career would be wrong if it didn’t take into consideration some of the challenges you will face.
One of our favorite parts about being full time wedding photographers is being able to work when we want. Aside from the wedding days you need to set aside on your calendar, the rest of your week is typically designated for backend tasks like responding to emails, marketing, photo editing, and similar tasks.
At this point in our businesses, we outsource a lot of the really time consuming backend tasks like photo culling and editing, which makes it much easier to have a work/life balance.
We remember the days working for other companies, often with just a few weeks of paid time off to take every year. As full time photographers, we don’t have a boss to report to. We can take vacations whenever we want – just recently deciding to visit Iceland on a whim. For the times we get sick, we also don’t have to ask for permission to take a down day. It’s great!
Your earnings as a wedding photographer is tied directly to the amount of work you want to take on. Need some extra cash? Just take on an extra wedding or two, and it can go really far.
We talk about this in depth in our post How Much Money Can You Make as a Wedding Photographer?
As wedding photographers, we get invited as a service professional to some of the best parties around. In the moments we’re not actively taking photos, it’s always cool to be able to hang out a little and even chat with some of the guests.
We have met people from every walk of life imaginable. Wedding photography has exposed us to a ton of different religious and cultural experiences, celebrities, people with diverse career backgrounds – it’s wild and so much fun!
One thing we hated about working corporate jobs was just how uncreative they were.
As a wedding photographer, your entire job is about being creative. As a photographer, you’ll always be looking out for great moments to capture and beautiful light. As a business owner, you’ll also be on the lookout for creative solutions to work faster, get more inquiries and bookings, and so on!
Wedding photographers are active.
We often go to weddings where we never get a chance to sit down, so we’re on our feet for a good 10-12 hours. Yes, we feel it the next morning!
One of the consequences of working for yourself is that you’re the only one who can do all of the things. As a result, you may find yourself working long hours just to finish editing a wedding, responding to emails, or making sure your next social media post is perfect. This is especially true in the early years where hustling is a big part of the job.
Of course, this can all be made much easier by outsourcing tasks that are time consuming or that you don’t have the skill to manage by yourself. This is why we created Shoot & Thrive – to help wedding photographers get ahead with their businesses.
One of the most challenging parts of being a wedding photographer is getting consistent bookings. In the times when you’re struggling, it can really be difficult to cope.
Fortunately, there are a ton of solutions to the problem of not getting enough work. You can refine your marketing efforts, get more experience in the industry, and so much more.
If this is a struggle you have, you should absolutely check out our Wedding Photography Course.
Here in Pennsylvania, weddings run consistently between April to November…then dry up during the winter months. That’s not to say there isn’t any work to go around, but it’s greatly diminished as people tend to want to avoid the cold winter months as much as possible.
In other places around the USA and world, the seasonality might vary.
As weddings typically take place on the weekends, you’ll have a hard time scheduling weekend plans with friends and family.
It’s a bummer to know we’ve missed out on things like family get togethers, music festivals, and other fun things just because we work consistently on the weekends.
Photographing a wedding can be tough as you often need to balance the photos you need with a timeline and personalities of everyone you are interacting with.
For us, this stress is actually fun, and we find that we perform our best under it, but admittedly we still get a lot of anxiety leading up to a wedding.
Setting reasonable expectations with your clients can be challenging, especially if you’re brand new to wedding photography. A few examples:
It gets easier as you get more experience and flesh out the things you are willing (and are not willing) to do for your clients.
It is amazing.
As full-time wedding photographers, we’ve had a ton of opportunities in our lives that would not have been possible had we chosen “safe” career paths.
Our favorite things about being full time wedding photographers:
Our least favorite things about being full time wedding photographers:
Okay, we’re going to break down 2 common days we have as wedding photographers. The first will be our days working from home, and the second will be on actual wedding days.
These are some of our favorite days.
We wake up, eat breakfast, workout and typically start working by 8:30 or 9am.
We keep a daily checklist of things we need to get done, but generally this involves things like responding to emails, writing blog posts for our website, creating posts for social media, culling and editing photos, and similar. Some days, we’ll take on bigger tasks like making website revisions or updating our workflows.
Around noon, we usually try to take a break and eat a healthy lunch. As we’re dog people, we also get in some affectionate snuggles with our pups and take them on a walk.
When we get back to work, usually around 12:30 or 1pm (but it’s usually flexible), we’ll keep at working through our checklist. Sometimes, we’ll have consult calls with new clients as well – which we usually aim to schedule between 9am and 6pm.
Around 5pm, we call it a day and enjoy our evenings.
It’s simple and close to the 9-5 job – but with the flexibility to take breaks and work on things you actually want to work on.
Now, wedding days are action packed from start to finish.
Typically, we’ll start our days by waking up, eating breakfast, and working out. Then…we wait around until it’s time to leave. (This time is the worst by the way, as we get pretty anxious just before the wedding). For some weddings, we’ll be close by, and others we’ll have to drive a few hours to get where we need to be.
Once we get to the venue and check in with our couple, everything gets easier. Since we’re experienced with weddings, we get into a “flow state” and capture everything we need. We usually start with details and candids as everyone is getting ready, then proceed onto things like the first look and portraits. The ceremony then rolls by, followed by cocktail hour (where we sometimes take a few minutes to ourselves), then the reception through the end of the night.
Weddings are fun, but a lot of work. Especially when compared to the pretty sedentary lifestyle we have during the week, working from home.
The next morning, we’re often a little groggy and like to catch some extra sleep if we can…unless it’s a double header weekend of course!
For wedding photographers who shoot for other companies as 2nd shooters or associate photographers, the job is simple – go to the wedding and photograph it. That’s it!
For most wedding photographers who also set out to start their own business, the job becomes a little bit of everything. Here’s a breakdown of the key things we do as wedding photographers:
Pretty much – we have to wear a lot of hats!
Fortunately, becoming a wedding photographer is pretty easy!
To get started:
For a more in depth article about this, check out our post How to Become a Wedding Photographer.
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